My adoration for BDSM stems from a relentless curiosity & love for secret knowledges, perversion, the taboo, psychological growth, and self-knowledge. Although My interests are eclectic, some of my absolute favorite things are the power dynamics inherent to seduction, tease and denial, CBT, strap, gender play, medical play, chastity, and bondage. A more comprehensive list of what ignites Me can be found on My “About Me” page.

1. 1. Read Domina Esmé Crane’s how-to piece for comprehensive info to consider when contacting any Pro here: “Yes, Mistress: How to serve a Professional Dominatrix, discover your inner submissive and embrace your kink”
   2. Read it entirely. Your email of inquiry isn’t exempt from My red pen.
   3. If you want to make a good impression, sending something from My wishlist or making a donation to G.L.I.T.S. (NYC), Red Canary Song (NYC), the St. James Infirmary (SF), or The Prison University Project are other very thoughtful gestures that speaks to your sincerity.

Roman showers, switching of any kind, boundary-pushing, topping from the bottom, play without safe-words, misogyny, racism, homophobia, transphobia, and bigotry.

You can! I speak with potential devotees on the phone via Niteflirt. You can see my profile here, and see if I’m online and available to have a conversation.

I do not discuss sessions via the phone outside of Niteflirt.

I love working with all kinds of people/ bodies and do not discriminate based on gender, orientation, age, ability, or experience level. New to BDSM? I love guiding newbies down the rabbit hole. I also session with couples! As long as you pass My screening requirements, just come as you are and be on your best behavior. 

Outcalls: I adore outcalls to upscale hotels of your choosing or at your private residence once you’ve become an established devotee. Should you prefer, I’m happy to book accommodations and add the cost to the deposit.

Incall: In NYC, I have access to multiple enchanting, private spaces in both Manhattan (Midtown and SoHo) and Brooklyn (Bushwick). 

Having the leisure to build the momentum of the dynamic and the scene over the course of an evening or a weekend is My particular delight.

I prefer the term “devotee”, and that depends entirely up to you. If you’d like to be considered for servitude training, you must be able to offer something considerable to the table. What skills, talents, utility can you provide to improve My life? It is also an honor that is earned over time and as such I require that you’ve already played with Me in professional sessions.

Creative collaboration is one of My absolute favorite things. I play very well with others and love to gang up with providers of all ilk.