MEN (and those who navigate binary structures most similarly to men): See table for rates below. However, if you bill out at a rate higher than the breakdown below, then pay whatever rate you bill out.
WOMEN (trans, enby folx, and those who navigate binary structures most similarly to women): 75% of rates posted below.

The Kinky GFE
An intimate date with a sensual Domme. 2h minimum.

An Introduction – 2h – 2000
Cocktail Rendezvous – 3h – 3000
Dinner Date – around 5h – 4500
Opulent Overnight – 8000
Weekend Getaway – 15000

*Inquire about FMTY and monthly arrangements for a curated quote*

The Specialized Curation
Classic BDSM/ Bondassage™/ Tantra
90m – 750
2h – 1000
3h – 1500
4h – 1800
6h – 2600
Overnight – 4000


A perfect intro to kink for the curious, Bondassage™ is “an ecstatic exploration of the senses through light bondage, sensory deprivation, esoteric bodywork, and sensation play.”


A sensual, somatic, mindful approach that focuses on embodiment as integral to intimate experience. Using techniques like breath work … Tantra is a sensory-based process of transformation that uses the energy of your desires.

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Take a walk on the wild side. Bondage & Discipline (BD), Dominance & Submission (DS), Sadism & Masochism (SM). My interests are eclectic but what I revel in most is curating artful, playful, and psychological experiences that compliment O/our unique chemistry. I am especially delighted by longer sessions that allow Me to delve deeper into your psyche and really tease out what makes you tick. That said, My specialties could be said to be sensual, relentless, deliriously drawn out tease, CBT, Chastity, servitude training, genderplay, strap, and impact play, alongside My general interests which include:

Bondage (Mummification, restraints, rope





Electro Play

(Positive) Feminization/Transformation

Fin Dom/Financial Domination*

Fitness Domination


Impact Play/Corporal: beatdowns, cane, flogger, paddle, whip, books, face-slapping, spanking, trampling

Maid training

Medical Play: cutting (scalpels, etc), play piercing, stapling, sounding

Objectification: Human furniture, etc

Other (Do tell!)

Pet Play

Public Play

Role play: Doctor/patient, Interrogation/Kidnapping scenes, boss/employee, Teacher/student, Stepmom/stepson, etc

Sensory Deprivation

Servitude (Maid training, errand sub, delicate laundry caretaker)

Slut Training

Showers (golden, brown*, ruby*)




Torture: CBT, corporal punishment, caging/confinement/ imprisonment, nipple torture, smothering, tickling/tickle torture

Tease: Bondassage™, chastity/restriction, CFNM, Cuckolding fantasy, FBSM, Tease & Denial, tie and tease, O-control, edging, JOI, verbal tease and humiliation, premature O training

Worship: legs, feet, neck, hair, armpit

*these sessions begin at 1000/hr


Interested in the following areas? I am too!

foot/leg worship










Coaching Sessions/Emotional Labor: $250/hr

 consent training

sex ed & sex-positivity

non-monogamy and alternative relationships

unlearning misogynistic thought and behavior patterns rooted in patriarchy

Life rehab: Fashion rehab, fitness/ health, interior design, organizational, relationship/dating coaching.

FOR SEX WORKERS/EROTIC WORKERS ONLY: Copy editing, coaching on how to date as a SWer, skill-sharing, safety & security practices, Q&A. Inquire for rates.

Bondassage™ Mistress NYC Philadelphia

Cancellation Policy

All deposits are nonrefundable.

I require at least 48-hours notice for a cancelled appointment.

If you cancel with more than 48 hours notice, you may transfer your deposit to a future session. The rescheduled session must occur within 14 days or the deposit is void.

Cancellations occurring less than 48 hours before your scheduled appointment will still require full payment for your scheduled time.

If you cancel within 48 hours of your scheduled appointment or “no-show”, any future appointments will require full payment in advance in order to book.

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